How to keep your partner herpes free
A sizzling sexy relationship with herpes is in your future. And it all starts with your relationship to what herpes means to your sex life.
- Is herpes a sex killer or
- Does herpes give a new perspective on the caring connection that sex creates between two people?
Can you feel that difference? That is the first part of seeing it as a relationship strengthener.
Small print: Before getting into specifics, let me first say that every couple must have the conversation about the risk of her herpes-free partner getting herpes. It’s just a fact. There’s always a chance (last I checked, it’s said that about 3% of the time between outbreaks can be viral shedding). Of course condoms are the best way to keep the partner herpes-free. Some couples will choose to go at it au natural; in these cases the herpes partner should take suppressive therapy even between occurrences to lower the chances.
This is a common occurrence in herpes relationships: One person has herpes and his/her partner doesn’t. And keeping the non-herpes partner free from herpes doesn’t have to be a burden and especially not a turnoff.
Keeping the partner herpes-free can actually be a beautiful way to take the relationship deeper and even add some sizzle to the intimacy.
This might just sound backwards to most people. After all, there are times in a herpes relationship where sexual contact is out of the question (during the occasional herpes occurrences). How can avoiding direct sexual contact turn up the connection to be even sexier?
Think of this in terms of how it works with other sensual experiences that couples do to enhance their sex lives … a big part of this includes teasing. Teasing in terms of playfully withholding sex, or maybe teasing by wearing a blindfold to cut off one sense in order to heighten the other remaining senses.
If you take the stigma out of herpes, then herpes occurrences are simply times in which everything other than straight up sex is fair game.
This can be a time of peaking the desire, stoking the fire, holding back from what both partners ultimately desire. Like most things — but especially sex — the more you realize you can’t have it, the more you want it.
So just like anything else, just use your imagination! Take the direct sexual contact out of the mix and playfully explore in all the other realms of intimacy.
Not only will it make the sex that much better when all’s good on the western front, but such exploration will expand the options when all out sex is re-introduced to the relationship. Trust me.
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